lyKk aqy ilKq---2

zf: guridafl isMG rfey
(pusqk "brqfnvI klmF" df iewk lyK)

hwQlI ilKq df mksd, lyKk jF lyKk dI ilKq sbMDI koeI hor nvIN pirBfÈf lwBx-GVn df nhIN hY sgoN lyKk dIaF hF pwKI ruwcIaF dI sMBfvnf bfry sMkyq dy ky lyKk aqy ilwKq sbMDI ivcfr nUM kuJ hor agHF qorn df Xqn krnf hY. bhumuwly smyN dI shI ZMg nfl vrqoN nf kr skx dI sËf qF aksr lyKk nUM BugqxI hI pYNdI hY pr iesdy nfl hI nfl jykr iewk lyKk afpxy idwl aqy idmfg dI gwl purI KulHidlI nfl nf kr sky qF AusdI mfr leI vI 'lyKk aqy ilKq' nUM hI iqafr rihxf pYNdf hY. iesy hI sMdrB ivc 'lyKk aqy ilKq' nUM iewk hor ZMg nfl ivcfrnf bxdf hY.

pihlF vI afiKaf igaf hY aqy hux iPr iesdI puÈtI krnI bxdI hY ik lyKk, ilKdf hY, ies leI hI lyKk huMdf hY. lyKk ikAuNik ilKdf hY ies leI ieh aMdfËf lgfAuxf vI Êlq nhIN hovygf ik lyKk nUM 'ilKx' nfl ipafr hY. ies ipafr kfrn hI Auh ilKdf hY. lyKk nUM afpxI lyKxI Auqy Brosf huMdf hY ik Ausny ilKxf hI hY aqy ies zUMGy Brosy kfrn Auh ilKdf hY. pr hr Auh bMdf ijhVf ik kuJ ilKdf hY, ilK skdf hY aqy ijsdf iliKaf idlcspI vflf nf hovy, 'lyKk' jF 'ilKq' dI iksy vI bwJHI jfx vflI pirBfÈF aDIn nhIN af skdf. AuNJ hF, jykr dUjy ivakqI quhfnUM ilKx leI pRyridaF quhfQoN AuhI kuJ ilKvFdy ny jo ik Auh cfhuMdy hn qF ieh kfrj-Kyqr, iek lyKk jF iek lyKk bnx dy cfhvfn nUM 'ilKx dI siQqI' dy nyVy lY jFdf hY. hux ies mgroN jykr 'lyKk' ny afpxf iDafn aqy soc afpxIaF idlcspIaF vl lgf leI hY qF smJ ilaf jfxf cfhIdf hY ik ilKx dI smwisaf nUM hwl krn sbMDI ivcfr bx geI hY. ies mgroN inscY hI 'ilKx' sbMDI agly kdm vI puwty hI jfxgy.

aYnOtmI afÌ aYn ielins aqy hIilMg hfrt dy krqf 'nfrmn kËinË' ny mnuwKI nsl nUM 'hF pwKI' aqy 'nFh pwKI' lokF ivc vMizaf hY. lyKk vI mnuwK hox dyy nfqy ies vMz dIu mfr hyT afAuNdy hn. lyKk vI hF pwKI aqy nFh pwKI huMdy hn, ho skdy hn. hF pwKI lokIN cmqkfrI kfrj krdy hn aqy AuhnF ivc jIvn nUM, jIvn dI isKr qwk jIAux dI iswk, lflsf aqy ÈkqI huMdI hY. nFh pwKI lok jIvn nUM Tyzy KFidaF hI ibqfAuNdy hn aqy Auh rwjky ipCF-iKcU aqy byqrqIby huMdy hn. aijhy nFh pwKI lyKk sbMDI ikafs vI nhIN kIqf jf skdf.

'kYinQ aYtictI' ny mnuwKI nsl dI iek hor ZMg nfl vMz kIqI hY. Ausny mnuwKI nsl nUM 'sfrQk Auqpfdk' aqy 'inrfrQk Auqpfdk' dy rUp ivc vMizaf hY. iewk Auh jo sfrQk kfrj kr skx dI ÈkqI aqy Xogqf rwKdy hn aqy dUjy Auh ijhVy bhuqf smF jF sfrf smF inrfQk kMmF ivc hI lMGf idMdy hn. hux jykr 'nsl' sbMDI kIqIaF geIaF dohF hI vMzF nUM joV ilaf jfvy qF asIN kih skdy hF: hF pwKI sfrQk Auqpfdk aqy nFh pwKI sfrQk Auqpfdk. jF ieMJ vI kih skdy hF ik iewk Auh ijhVy kfrj kr skdy hn aqy dUjy Auh ijhVy kyvl kfrj krn, kr skx jF nf kr skx dIaF gwlF hI krdy rihMdy hn.

sfrQk kfrj kr skx dI Xogqf aqy ÈkqI rwKdy, hF pwKI lokIN afpxy ihwsy afey smyN nfl ipafr krdy hn. Auh 'smyN' pfsoN dUijaF dy mukfbly iËafdf prfpq krdy hn. AuhnF nUM smJ pY cuwkI huMdI hY ik inrfrQk kfrj krn vfly nFh pwKI lokF dy mukfbly smyN dI TIk vrqoN ikvyN krnI hY. iesqoN vI vwD Auh ieh vI jfxdy hn ik smyN nUM inrfrQk qOr qy lMGfAuxf pYx qy vI, bfkI bwcdy smyN ivc ikvyN krqfrI aqy isrjxfqimk kfrjF nUM nypry cfVHnf hY.

iewQy iewk Audfhrx dy ky sfrQk qy inrfrQk nUM spÈt krn df iewk hor Xqn hY. amrIkf ivc jOhn pI[ bOzI hYirMgtn nF df iewk supRiswD aYNQropOlyijst hoieaf hY. jdoN AusdI mOq hoeI, Aus smyN qwk, Aus vloN ley gey ivvrx, drjxF KoiqaF Auqy lwdy jfx jogy sn. Ausdy KrVy rwKx aqy sMBflx nUM QF nhIN sI lwB rhI. Ausdy ley gey ivAuiraF aqy KriVaF nfl vfiÈMgtn zIsI dy simQsonIan ieMnstIitAUÈn dI bysmYNt Br geI. ieho hI nhIN, Ausdy bfkI bwcdy KriVaF nUM sMBflx leI keI hor vyar-hfAUs ikrfey Auqy lYxy pey. hYirMgtn dI jIvnI ilKx vflI lyiKkf kYroiwbQ lyarz ny, hYirMgtn nUM afpxy smyN df sB qoN vwzf smF guafAU afiKaf hY. qusIN Èfied jfx hI ilaf hovygf ik ikAuN?

Xojnf-bwD jIvn vFg hI Xojnf-bwD kfrj kuÈlqf aqy Xojnf-bwD 'lyKxI' df mhwqv hY. nhIN qF aYvyN hvf ivc soty hI mfrn vflI gwl hY. arsqU ny qF iewk kdm hor awgy puwtidaF ikhf sI ik mnuwKI vrqfrf hI jIvn dI ivAuNqbMdI hY pr hYrfnI aqy duwK dI gwl hY ik ikvyN bhuq QoVy lokIN hI 'Xojnf-bwD' jIvn nUM gMBIrqf aqy sfrQkqf nfl lYNdy hn.

ibnF Èwk, aijhy lok, ijhVy ik swQ ivc ivCIaF drIaF dy koixaF hyT hI guafc nhIN jFdy, smyN nUM sfrQk kfrj leI vrqidaF jykr sMsfr df hr koxf nhIN qF Gwto-Gwt afpxy ihwsy afieaf koxf qF ËrUr hI Aujlf bxf idMdy hn. cmkf idMdy hn. XUnfnIaF ny vI plfinMg dI mhwqqf nUM smJidaF jIvn nUM swq-swq virHaF dy KMzF ivc vMz ilaf qF jo PYsly ley jf skx ik ies smyN ivc kI kI jF kI kuJ krnf aqy prfpq krn leI Xqn krnf hY. pr keI afhMdy suxdy hF ik Xojnf-bwD jIx leI smF hI ikwQy hY?

aqy afAu vyKIey, lyKk dy ivhVy smyN nUM. smF qF sB pfs aqy sB leI iewko ijhf hI huMdf hY. ieh nhIN ik sfzy leI smF Gwt hY aqy iksy dUsry pfs smF vwD. sfzy pfs, hF sfzy pfs smyN dI Gft nhIN sgoN jykr Gft hY qF Xojnf-bwD ivAuNqbMdI dI. ieqflvIaF df ivcfr hY ik mnuwK pfs jIvn nfloN vI vwD smF hY. AuhnF df ivcfr hY ik hr iewk pfs, hr kfrj krn leI smF iml skdf hY bÈrqy ik mnuwK TIk ZMg nfl smyN dI vMz kr sky qF.

ies leI lyKk jF lyKk bnx dI iewCf rwKx vfilaF nUM awj hI afpxy ilKx-jIvn df nINh-pwQr rwK dyxf cfhIdf hY. quhfzI qswlI, ilKx sbMDI soc nfl hI smfpq nhIN hoxI cfhIdI sgoN 'ilKx' dy kfrj nfl hoxI cfhIdI hY. bxIaF, sQfpq, ricq ilKqF-vsqF sbMDI hI nf socI jfvo sgoN bnfAux, sQfpq krn aqy rcx sbMDI vI soco.

ieh drusq aqy smJ af skx vflI gwl hY ik iksy vI Xojnf jF ivAuNqbMdI df afrMB sdf hI iewk supny nfl huMdf hY. lyKk dI ilKq df arMB vI qF iewk supnf hI huMdf hY. pr ËrUrI gwl ieh hY ik ieh supnf bhuq hI qMdrusq, qwkVf, gMBIr aqy suMdrqf rilaf hoxf cfhIdf hY. aijhf smrQ supnf, iPr lyKk dy isr ivc, iewk bwcy dy jnm-bIj vFg plxf afrMB huMdf hY. aqy iPr ies supny df plyTf jnm kfÊË Auqy iewk Kfky dy rUp ivc afAuNdf hY. iesnUM pihlf KrVf vI ikhf jf skdf hY. ies AuprMq ies 'Aupj' nUM dUroN KVo ky dyKx dI loV NpYNdI hY. ies mgroN iPr duhrfAu, kFt-CFt aqy soD-suDfeI dI vfrI afAuNdI hY.

drasl, mnuwKI jIvn dI shI qrjmfnI afsfn kMm nhIN. mnuwK dI isrjxf ivc swc dI QF hY. pr isrjxfqimk klf dIaF iswKrF Cohx leI, lyKk nUM afpxf afpf pihcfnx mgroN swc nUM bVI mËbUqI nfl pkVnf pYNdf hY. iewk lyKk bnx dy ieCuwk ny afpxy afp df ikho ijhf Kfkf bxfky rwiKaf hoieaf hY AusnUM bfhr afAux dyx dI loV hY. aijhy 'afpy dy Kfky' nUM afpxy inwj dy 'lukvyN puwC pVqfl dy kyNdr' ivc qwko, ivcfro, prKo, GoKo aqy prIiKaf lY ky afpxy afp nUM puwCo ik kI quhfzI phuMc Xog hY? kI ieh XQfrQ dy nyVy hY? aijhy tIcy jF inÈfny ijhVy phuMc qoN bhuq hI Auwcy hox, lfhyvMd nhIN huMdy. iesdy Ault, aijhy tIcy ijhVy bhuq hI hyTly drjy dy hox AuhnF sbMDI qF ivcfr krnI hI Êlq hovygI. iPr jdoN qusIN afpxy idmfg ivc iesdy afkfr jF rUp Auqy itwkitkI lgf rwKIu hovy qF afpxy afp nUM puwCo ik ies supnmeI afkfr nUM swc bnfAux leI ikhVy ikhVy kdm cuwkxy ËrUrI hn. bwcf, mnuwK bnx leI ijvyN iswKdf hY qusIN vI iesdI sÌlqf leI sfry hI puwty jfx vfly kdmF sbMDI isKx leI iqafr hovo. nkl krky iswKo, svY-ividaf prfpq kro, skUl, kflj, tYknIkl kflj, XUnIvristI, lfiebryrI jfky pVHo, guVHo. ieh ivwidaf/iswiKaf kyvl akfdimk hI hovy ieMJ nhIN hY. akfdmik ividaf hfsl ho sky qF cMgI gwl hY. pr igafn prfpqI leI sB drvfËy KulHy hn. ijwQoN vI, ijvyN vI lyKk df idmfg igafn df BMzfrf hfsl kr sky krdf rhy.

lyKk dI ilKq dI sÌlqf leI hI nhIN sgo jIvn dI hr sÌlqf dI gfrMtI df inrBr kRmvfr agHF drj kuJ gwlF Auqy vI hY:

(1) Auwdm, Xqn, axQwk imhnq aqy idRVqf dI rucI df hoxf byhwd ËrUrI hY.

(2) ies ipwCoN vfrI afAuNdI hY quhfzy sbMDF dI, myl-jol dI, sMprk dI. qusIN kI ho jF kI krn dy Xog ho qoN bfad quhfzy sMprk ikho ijhy hn, bhuq mhwqqf rwKdy hn.

(3) kI lyKk nUM ilKx dI cfh hY? kI Aus nuM ilKx ivc prsMnqf imldI hY?

(4) pRiqBf, Xogqf, inpuMnqf, ilafkq cOQy QF dI gwl hY.

sMsfr Br dy lyKk ies gwly sihmq hn ik Auwpr idwqIaF cfry gwlF iewk lyKk aqy AusdI ilKq dI sÌlqf leI byhwd ËrUrI hn. lyKk dI sÌlqf df inrBr Ausdy Auwdm Bfv ilKx ivc hY, ilwK ky Cwpx leI Byjx ivc hY aqy ilKxf jfrI rwKx ivc hY ik AusdI ilKq nUM prvfngI imly. jykr lyKk dI ilKq nUM pihlF pihl prvfngI nf imly qF aprvfngI qoN iblkul hI GbrfAux dI loV nhIN (mMdyBfgIN pMjfbI ivc qF jo mrjI ilKI jfvo sB prvfn hI prvfn hY). pUrf iDafn lgf ky ilKxf aqy ilwK ky Byjdy rihxf cfhIdf hY. ilwK ilwK ky lyKk leI ieh pqf lgf skx dI Xogqf pYdf kr lYxI ËrUrI hY ik Auh hTIlI, dMBI, by-asUlI aqy ivGn pfAux vflI ilKq aqy isrjxfqimk (krqfrI) ilKq dy aMqr nUM smJ sky. lyKk nUM cfhIdf hY ik Auh iewk bfr PYslf lY lvy ik Ausny ikho ijhf ilKxf hY aqy ies mgroN iPr dlyrI nfl ilKdy jfx dI loV hY. aijhf PYslf lY cuwky lyKk dI ilKq, kyvl svY-ivÈvfÈ aqy anusfÈn jF inXm-pflxf dI Gft kfrn hI asÌl hox dI sMBfvnf rwKygI nhIN qF sdf hI sÌlqf dIaF pOVIaF hI cVHdI jfvygI.

pfTkF ny dyiKaf hovygf ik pRiqBf nUM cOQI QF qy rwiKaf igaf hY. drasl ieh gwl nhIN ik lyKk jF AusdI ilKq ivc pRiqBf df koeI dÉl nhIN huMdf. pRiqBf dI QF hY pr ieh ieMnI drkfrI nhIN ijMnI ik anusfÈn aqy inXm-bwD ilKx dI jugq dI pflxf krnI. anusfÈn leI, svY-ivÈvfs qoN vI vwD idRVqf dI loV hY. lyKk dy supny dI pUrqI df dfromdfr Ausdy idRVqf nfl kIqy gey axQwk XqnF sdkf AupjI ilKq Auqy hI hY.

aksr keI icMqk, pRiqBf, pRyrnf jF pRoqsfhn nuM sursvqI dy vrdfn nfl vI joVdy hn. swc jfnxf, lyKk leI iksy sursvqI dyvI dI loV nhIN. sgoN sursvqI df ipwCf Cwz ky, lyKk jI! anusfÈx dI pkV-jkV hyT afAu. anusfÈx nfl hI Auqpfidkqf huMdI hY. Aupj huMdI hY. jykr sursvqI dy vrdfn dI hI AuzIk kIqI jFdI rhI qF ieh ilKq quhfzI nhIN hovygI, sursvqI dyvI dI hovygI. pr jykr lyKk, afpxy vloN bxfeI aqy inrDfirq kIqI geI smyN dI vMz pRxflI anusfr ilKxf afrMBygf qF pihlF qF sursvqI lyKk nUMM awKF kwZ ky idKfvygI aqy iPr Auh afpxy afp hI quhfzI lgn nUM dyKidaF quhfzy ilKx tybl Auqy bYTI quhfzy sfhmxy muskfeygI.

lyKk dI ilKq ƒ Bfv ilKy hoey ÈbdF nUM iksy Auqpfdk vsqUaF df drjf dyxf Èfied pfTkF nUM jicaf nf hovy. pr shI arQF ivc lyKk df Auqpfdn hY AusdI ilKq. QoVf jF bhuq, pfTk lyKk dy Auqpfdn df muwl pfAuNdy hn. pfAuNdy hn jF nhIN pr lyKk dI ilKq Cwpx AuprMq lyKk aijhf ikafs qF skdf hY. bs lyKk dy hwQ iewk qswlI hI afAuNdI hY hor kuJ nhIN.

hwQlI ivcfr nUM hor agHF qorn dI lflsf ivc kuJ itwpxIaF hfËr hn. ivcfr kr dyKxf:

* gogol afKdf hY: lyKk nUM afpxI klm dI Ausy qrHF hI lgfqfr vrqoN krnI cfhIdI hY ijvyN icqrkfr afpxy burÈ dI krdf hY. AusnUM roË hI kuJ nf kuJ ilKxf cfhIdf hY. hwQ nUM, hwQ ivc PVI klm nUM, ivcfrF dI pUrI aDIngI ivc kMm krnf iswKxf cfhIdf hY.

* khfxIkfr rfm srUp awxKI kUkdf hY: sfihq rcnf koeI Èugl nhIN qy nf hI koeI mËbUrI hY.

* pRo: hmdrvIr nOÈihrvI kihMdf hY: ilKxf koeI mnorMjn nhIN, koeI qPrIh nhIN. ilKxf iewk sfDnf hY --- iewk ikrq hY.

*iek hor ivdvfn anusfr ies ivc 99 pRqIÈq pRiqBf huMdI hY aqy 99 pRqIÈq imhnq.

qusIN dso, qusIN kI krnf hY? pRiqBf dI Bfl krnI hY ik imhnq.